wedding night
Tips For Wedding Night
& Things To Remember
It is always good to be hopeful about your wedding
night. But it may not be as you must have imagined it.
Wedding nights determine the value and level of intimacy
the couple are about to share for rest of their lives.
So start it on a comfortable note. The mantra is to
understand and accept the uniqueness of each other.
You need to be realistic and hope for the best. The
celebration would have already tired you, so the need of
the hour is to relax and brush off the exhaustion.
Instead of behaving awkward approach your partner as a
friend. Talk, be humorous and basically feel at ease and
make your partner feel the same.
Tips for Wedding Night:
- Firstly, you need to understand your own body and what it needs. Feel free to communicate to your partner about your sexual pleasures and fantasies.
- Take a nap after the wedding and wake up to a fresh wedding night.
- After having woken up, you could take a shower and change your clothes to feel clean and comfortable.
- Set the mood. Light a few candles and play soft music behind.
- Order for room service. Invite yourself and your partner to a romantic treat. There is no need to rush things, so take it easy and enjoy every moment of the night.
- The next step would be to share thoughts about the wedding and each other.
- Invite each other to shake a leg or two. Add some flavor to the night and think of ways to make your partner enjoy and do the things he or she has never done maybe.
- Then present your partner with a wedding gift, diamond or chocolates for your lady and any gadget or champagne for your man.
- Surprise your man with sensuous lingerie and try wearing the bare minimum to allow both to get into the mood.
- Then you could start with a sensuous massage. Get used to touch and make yourself comfortable.
- Then eventually go for a bubble bath.
- Lastly, even if sex wasn’t as great as you thought it would it be, then relax, you got a lifetime to make it as exotic and beautiful.
Creating an ambience of love and passion adds to the beauty of this night. So, do it with candles, wine and flowers. Let your partner be floored by you and all the things you are doing, to make this night, the best moment of your lives.
Things to remember:
- Abstain from sex for weeks or months prior to the wedding night
- Don’t drink too much of alcohol as you could be clumsy or even sleepy after that
- If you don’t want children so early then do take precaution and feel free to discuss with your partner